tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1203082776419426855.post6798365650823455304..comments2024-03-26T02:19:27.813-07:00Comments on ♆ The Macho Response ♆: And They Hate You (Happy Fathers Day)The Crack Emceehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08366101526773588864noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1203082776419426855.post-11626181543739403212008-06-10T12:57:00.000-07:002008-06-10T12:57:00.000-07:00I am divorced and remarried, so I 'll share some t...I am divorced and remarried, so I 'll share some thoughts. One of the reasons that men get pushed out of thier kids lives is that they leave the domicile where the kids reside. I guess this is sort of tradition. it feels wrong to most men to ask their kids mother to leave - so they do the 'right thing' so things can cool off. Once Dad does this, as far as the court is concerned, the clock is ticking and his importance to his kids dwindles rapidly. Years of intense involvement with one's kids can be rendered meaningless in the eyes of the family court in a month. Posession is 90% of the law. The first thing mother's lawyers often do is try to make the father out to be scary somehow. They get restraining orders and the deal is then sealed. <BR/>Don't leave the house. No matter how outrageous your kid's mother gets so that you will leave, don't leave. That is the game mothers and their lawyers play. If you leave, game over. Man up, stay, and you will have a better shot in court.WChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06296846202285467079noreply@blogger.com