I Know How I Look To The World & How It Looks To Me

That's a huge advantage.

If you're black, you're outnumbered - that's a given - so add an "s" to the word "friend" and this can apply to you as well:

  7 Things Your Colorblind Racist Friend Might Say to You and How to Respond 

You don't say?

Let's see an example:

Reverse Racism 

What they say: “Blacks cry ‘racism’ for everything, even though they are more or just as racist as white people.” 

Response: 

Let’s first define racism with this formula: Racism = racial prejudice + systemic institutional power. 

To say people of color can be racist, denies the power imbalance inherent in racism. Although some Black people dislike whites and act on that prejudice to insult or hurt them, that’s not the same as systematically oppressing them and negatively affecting every aspect of their lives,...

You don't say?

Great advice - except they left out what it's like, to have to repeat that for ignorant (and hostile) white people, multiple times a day: 

You don't say?

Or for "every aspect" of a black person's life.

I do say.

Under these circumstances, whites make blacks tired of living,…