The behavior most people exhibit, when challenged, is very limited - they want to destroy you:
"I pissed a lot of people off over a long period of time and they found a way to upset me, hoping that upset would bring a change in my behaviour. Like a distancing … But I'm done, I'm done. People wanted me to be not fine. A lot of it was bullshit."
Has she felt that for a long time that people are trying to get her, that they're angry with her?
Why are they angry?
And, if you're black, they will destroy you - one way or another -precisely because you shouldn't,...